This is correct. Using a leather conditioner on coated leather won't hurt anything, but would be a waste since it can't reach the leather to condition it.The leather in your CRV is a performance leather. which means as mentioned above it has a sealer. Just clean with a leather cleaner. Although the leather cleaner will never contact the leather, it is a mild cleaner with a neutral ph. It will not damage the sealer coat.
Do not use leather conditioners on performance leathers.