In the last 55 years I have driven about every type of vehicle that is made. Having worked for three different car makers I drove every model with every option they produced. Front engine RWD, (subset....Front engine, rear transmission RWD) Front engine FWD, Front engine AWD, front engine 4WD, Mid engine RWD (terrible in snow!) Rear engine RWD, and so on. I have driven about every type of AWD system produced; full time, part time, on demand, Split torque, electrically switched, viscus clutch, etc. I have driven these vehicle types in all type of weather and road conditions from bone dry, wet, heavy rain, light and heavy snow, a few blizzards, ice, etc. both in the US and the Alps in Winter. And, not that it matters, but I have never crashed any of these vehicles nor gotten stuck in any condition including black ice, etc.
What I have learned over the years:
1) You have to be aware of the road conditions at all times. I will often go slow and apply the brakes at a controlled rate to get a feel for traction conditions. I want to know the limits of my vehicle and its adhesion to the road surface. (The company does not like it when you crash a quarter of a million dollar hand made pre-production vehicle you were entrusted with, especially when you have to use it for a training class the next day).
2) There is no magic system that can prevent you from making stupid mistakes. Yes, the vehicle can do its best but in the end you are were the buck stops. If you are stupid you may win stupid prizes.
3) Speed is your enemy, over confidence is never your friend.
4) Good tires appropriate to the road conditions always help. "All Season" tires will never do as well as dedicated snow tires.
5) Nothing works great on ice. Even 40+ ton army tanks with steel treads will slide off icy roads like they were toys. (Studded snow tires will however do better than non-studded ones).
OH, and when people talk about AWD they always get hung up on snow, as if that were the only condition were AWD mattered. Far from it. Fact is I will not buy an SUV without AWD and it has nothing to do with snow rather it has everything to do with day-to-day driving, wet roads, sand on the road, wet grass, oil slicks and so many other conditions that have nothing to do with snow.
Look up the resale value of a AWD CR-V (or other vehicle) compared to the FWD version. You may well lose money when you buy a FWD and then go to sell it some years later. In many places the used vehicle price for a FWD CR-V is thousands less than a AWD model. Doesn't matter if the person "needs" AWD or not, they will pay much more for it.
You can have your own opinion. You can quote any article you want, it doesn't matter. People feel the way they do and will act on their emotions and feelings, its just human nature. And, believe it or not, AWD is better in "normal" driving. Ask Audi how that "Quattro" did for them.