Welcome to the CRVOC forum. Many fine folks here from around the globe.
Click on your avatar in the upper right hand corner, —> Account Settings, —> Vehicle Details. Complete for your vehicle, then hit Save. In this manner, that vital piece of information automatically appears whenever you post.
With 6 generations of the V on the road today, knowing the year & trim level of the vehicle in question helps those asking & those willing to respond.
Be sure to include your location so when a member hovers over the flag, it shows where you are. There might be a member close to you who could recommend a reputable shop if needed.
When we had our '08 V, we DIY replaced all the shock struts, links, & sway bar bushings @ around 150,000 miles. Shock struts with KYB, the rest with MOOG parts. Really made a great difference. If you are going to DIY, I highly recommend getting complete struts. Much quicker when replacing, plus you don't have to worry about using a manual spring compressor.
As with CharlieVT, wondering how you determined that your suspension has gotten dramatically worse in and around 65K miles.